Coleen Nolan, 61, describes how her relationship with Ryan Brockbank, who is younger by about 14 to 20 years according to different reports, begins with direct messages on Instagram. Several outlets say she later shared their earliest exchanges, including flirty wording that led to their romance.

In interviews and panel discussion coverage, Nolan also addresses her initial reaction to the age gap. The Mirror and The Independent frame her comments as an explanation of how the relationship started and her perspective on age differences in dating. The Daily Mail outlets add that Nolan says she initially dismissed Brockbank as “too young,” describing this as stemming from insecurity, before the relationship developed further.

Across the articles, the central points are consistent: Nolan discusses the age gap, says the pair first connected through DMs, and shares details of early communication. The main variation is the reported age difference and the emphasis on her earlier reservations.