Vanessa Feltz and her former fiancé, Ben Ofoedu, are involved in a public back-and-forth following comments made by Feltz about their long relationship. The reports state that Feltz described being treated in a “mummy” role during their 17-year relationship and said she found it “a big fat bore” to be “mummy” to an adult.

The same coverage says Ofoedu responds by disputing or criticizing Feltz’s account. He is reported to describe reaching “rock bottom” and to launch a “scathing tirade” in response to her claims. Feltz is also reported to say that Ofoedu “cheated so ferociously” that she had to “throw him out.”

Across the outlets provided, the focus is on the combative nature of the exchange, quoting Feltz’s “mummy” remark and highlighting Ofoedu’s rebuttal. Both sources frame the dispute around competing narratives of fidelity and the dynamics of the relationship, without additional independently verified details.