Nigerian singer Ayra Starr says that if she dates a man who earns less than her, she believes she would become controlling in the relationship. She shares the view while discussing relationship expectations on the “Wahala” podcast, where she comments on how financial disparity can shape power dynamics.
Both outlets report that Starr also frames the arrangement as not removing the expectation of the man providing support. Even if she is richer, she suggests the partner would still be expected to contribute, rather than the responsibility shifting entirely to her.
The reporting focuses on Starr’s comments about money and control rather than any new personal relationship details. The outlets differ mainly in wording and emphasis—one highlights “I’ll control a man if I’m richer than him,” while the other centers on dating a man “earning less” than her—but they describe the same core message attributed to Starr on the podcast.
