Several outlets publish advice from a self-described sex expert addressing how couples interpret a lack of intimacy. The articles say that when a long-term relationship experiences a “dry spell” or sex begins to feel routine, many partners assume the relationship is failing.

The guidance focuses on common misconceptions about intimacy, arguing that reduced sexual frequency or shifting feelings does not automatically mean a couple is on the verge of breaking up. Instead, the piece frames intimacy issues as potentially explainable by factors such as stress, changing routines, or communication problems. While the two sources present the same overall message, the framing is similar rather than investigative: both focus on what couples “get wrong” when assessing their relationship rather than on new research or reported cases.

Overall, the articles provide relationship and sexual-intimacy commentary, emphasizing interpretation and behavior changes, with no clear agreement across outlets on specific causes beyond the general idea that a temporary decline in intimacy can have reasons that do not indicate relationship collapse.