Nigerian influencer Sophia Momodu says she experienced emotional and psychological abuse after becoming pregnant out of wedlock for singer Davido. Speaking at a United Nations General Assembly event in New York on Monday, she says she was mocked because she is the daughter of a pastor, and that the situation drained her and affected her ability to speak publicly.

Momodu says she felt pushed to remain silent for a long time, describing the criticism as something she had to endure despite being well known. She adds that the trauma contributed to her “losing her voice” for a period, and that she later found her voice after repeatedly being encouraged to speak and not keep her story hidden. The reports identify her as the mother of Davido’s first daughter, Imade Adeleke, and present her account as personal experience shared at the UN event.