Travis Barker says Kourtney Kardashian’s “crazy” text message changed their relationship, pushing it from long-standing friendship into romance. Multiple outlets report he describes a specific moment when her message, sent in 2021, is what marked a turning point between them.

Both sources frame the couple’s relationship as developing gradually before becoming a couple around 2020. They describe a period in which Barker and Kardashian were friends for about 15 years, and later shifted into dating. One outlet emphasizes Barker’s characterization of the text as bold and unpredictable, using language like “something crazy,” while another focuses on his account of the message itself as the catalyst.

Overall, the reports share the same core details: Barker comments publicly on how Kardashian’s message plays a key role in their relationship timeline and that their romance follows a lengthy friendship before becoming public.